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Comment on mother huggers by Bella

Bella — Tue, 04 Jun 2013 23:58:08 +0000

Linda, my apologies for being so late to the party. I’m going to use the “knee pain” card and other health maladies to justify my absence. Oh dear Lord, when am I going to get better? Argh. Back to this wonderful post of yours. I too am a mother hugger. Growing up, my parents were never overtly affectionate. Yes, my sisters and I knew they loved us but they were never very touchy feely. My father, a hard core military man, was never quite comfortable in hugging and my mother just wasn’t a hugger. I think that’s why I was so very close to my nana. Oh, how I loved her! A hug from her meant more to me than anything in the world. In spite of how you express how difficult your relationship is with your mother, I commend you for writing and expressing your feelings about it. Methinks there’s no better way to process the emotions that come with this type of dynamic. And you inspire us to do the same!

Comment on mother huggers by Portia Burton

Portia Burton — Wed, 22 May 2013 12:35:36 +0000

For me my mom is everything!I’m her ‘lovechild’and don’t regret at all for being ‘the single child’, ’cause i can have all of mom’s love, though I always remain hungry for more of it. But to be honest, hugging her has become a little awkward for both of us since she lost her R.B. to C. The feel of something missing ‘there’ is so painful!
-Portia

Comment on mother huggers by janu

janu — Wed, 22 May 2013 05:04:03 +0000

@Dangerous Linda, I would love to meet you too Linda…you are such a free spirit. Hugging you back.
Love.

Comment on mother huggers by Dangerous Linda

Dangerous Linda — Wed, 22 May 2013 02:52:35 +0000

@Corinne Rodrigues,

Thank you for commenting on the photo of J & M — It is a favorite of mine! Reminds me of the fun the three of us used to have hanging out together all the time! Such a wonderful childhood we had

And thank you for your kind words about my parenting — I try my damnedest! XOXOXO

Comment on mother huggers by Dangerous Linda

Dangerous Linda — Wed, 22 May 2013 02:33:02 +0000

@Dear Melissa,

It’s sweet to see your interactions and photos with your family on Facebook and on your blog. You all appear genuinely close and fond of each other — Wonderful! And your nieces — ADORABLE!

I appreciate the mothering role you play in the lives and hearts of the many children whose lives you touch every day! I believe all women are called to the Mother role, whether they have children or not. We are the Mothers of the world.

Thank you for all that you are and for sharing your amazing self HERE! XOXOX

Comment on mother huggers by Dangerous Linda

Dangerous Linda — Wed, 22 May 2013 01:52:20 +0000

@janu,

What an interesting thing to say about your mother: “I could see her dream through my eyes.”

Very poetic. And also mysterious. I’d like to know more about what that means to you…

I look forward to meeting you some day — I can tell your are quirky and funny, which is a great combination in harmony with your artistic and creative bent.

I have a BIG HUG ready for you!

Thank you for visiting and sharing! XOXOXO

PS I’m holding you and your mom in my heart — I’m touched by your devotion and your relationship with her ;-*

Comment on mother huggers by Amy @mommetime

Amy @mommetime — Sun, 19 May 2013 17:10:33 +0000

Happy Belated Mothers Day… I wasn’t much of a hugger, well that all changed after kids –I hug them A LOT plus some. I felt, growing up in the family that I did, that they could not or would not hear me. I felt my world small and silent. I think the way that shaped or changed me shows in my relationship with my kids… often times the easier softer way (at that moment) is to give them their answers or to do for them, but I won’t… don’t… My oldest has a quiet voice, but when she speaks up –it is huge. My little one has a big voice and she’ll say it… sing it. Freedom of expression…

Comment on mother huggers by Dawn

Dawn — Sun, 19 May 2013 01:43:30 +0000

I have been blessed with my wonderful Mom, and with her whole family (she’s one of 9 siblings). We are huggers extraordinaire!! Someone close to me commented years ago that, “Dawn, your family views hugs the way most people view world currency – that’s pretty cool!” I agree with that comment and it always makes me smile.

My relationship with my father, however, is similar to yours with your mom. It is a difficult, oftentimes toxic relationship that I struggled with for the first half of my life. These days, I have come to perhaps the best, most healthy level of detachment that I am going to attain regarding my dad. If we can get through a day without drama or unhealthy actions and words from him, I consider it a win.

My beautiful Mom is the one who guides me and who has given me a firm foundation. She encouraged me to embrace my unique spirit, encouraged me to be the loving person that I am, and she showed me (all of us) by her living example that being openly loving, nurturing and caring is a positive. She also staunchly supported me to walk a different path and not fall into stereotypical expectations. She is more than I can adequately put into words wonderful. Beautiful. Funny. Delightful. Kind. Loving. Ad Infinitum!

Happy Mother’s Day, Miss Linda (albeit belated)! I see you in all your bright beauty and I send you the biggest, warmest, longest, tightly held HUG! <3

Much love,

- Dawn

Comment on mother huggers by Corinne Rodrigues

Corinne Rodrigues — Wed, 15 May 2013 13:21:28 +0000

I’m fascinated by the picture of J and M – it says so much about their freedom of spirit – which is your gift to them. Here’s a hug from on hugger to a mother-hugger! ♥

Comment on mother huggers by Melissa

Melissa — Tue, 14 May 2013 02:56:34 +0000

Hi Linda I love hugging my mom but she doesn't hug us that much now that we're adults She's to blame that I grew up too spiritual lol... kidding aside, she's my model for patience and loving children. And I always look up to her as my hero when she pulled me out of the mud (my mess)... Giving you lots of hugs Linda Everyday is Mother's Day for me